Here is a list of the most asked questions related to tantra and our tantra workshops. If you don’t find your answer here, then you can either post a comment with your question, call us or send us an email and we will reply as soon as possible.
Can I practice Tantra even if I am very young?
Tantra can be practiced at any age, but of course the sooner you start, the most benefits you can have. Through tantra you will discover that sexual continence is the biggest gift of your life. We would suggest being curious and exploring its principles even before becoming sexually active, as this will give you a chance to have it amazing from the very beginning. This will have great benefits both for you and for your lover. If you preserve your sexual energy instead of throwing it away for nothing, you will thus increase your inner power and wisdom.
Is there an age limit for older people?
Tantra as such can be practised at any age. Some of the practices are though only possible as long as the erotic energy is still high in our being. This is also something that may differ very much from one person to another.
At the same time, Tantra can help re-en-state the erotic energy in our being if one gets really keen on practising with perseverance all the techniques required. So, yes, tantra can be practised at any age!
I have premature ejaculation. Can Tantra help me?
At the very physical level, this means that the muscles involved in sexual intercourse are too weak. There are some simple but efficient exercises that will develop these sexual muscles. They can be practised even in death moments, for example, while waiting at the office or when driving your car.
Tantra will also help you become more aware of your emotions and of your erotic energy, and in this way you will get a much more profound understanding of what is going on within your being, thus becoming able to make conscious choices all the time.
I am woman and my labia are very big. Should I cut them by operation?
In Tantra, such women with big vaginal lips are very precious. That shows they have a big sexual energy and the sexual tantric intercourse can lift both lovers into blissful ecstasy! So, congratulations, you are a gifted woman,and so are women with large breasts, big clitoris and big hips. Please don’t cut them, as it would be a huge mistake! And terribly painful, as well!
There are women who do not manage to have an orgasm: a) either not at all or b) only if they masturbate but not with their partner. Would tantra be able to help with this?
The answer to this question is absolutely yes! It is in a woman’s nature to experience deep pleasure and it is only a matter of getting back in touch with your true self in order to be able to dive deep into the ocean of blissful pleasures that the erotic energy can offer us.
Tantra offers two solutions to this, and most of the times, they need to be used together: one is amplifying our erotic energy, and there are plenty of means to do this, (aphrodisacal herbs, hatha yoga posture, breathing techniques, yoni massage, and much more -we will explore this in our courses) and the other is somehow more subtle, but many times it represents the main cause of such a situation, and that is the fact that sometimes women, due to circumstances of life, are alienated from their true soul, on different degrees. For a woman to reach orgasm, especially the sexually continent orgasm, her soul needs to be touched and fulfilled. Only then will she truly allow her ecstatic spring to flow and it will even flow upwards, making her entire body and being experience intense waves of pleasure that may eventually make her plunge into the bliss of communion with the Absolute. There will be much more to be presented and practised on this as well, on our courses that we have tailored specially for women who want to explore Tantra and use it to enrich their lives!
My wife doesn’t agree with oral sex. What should I do, cause I have this fantasy?
Many people have sexual tabu points. Maybe she had a very rigid education. Maybe she suppressed her sexuality with the idea of making a sin.
You can invite her to join you in attending our courses and she will find that all the body parts of the lover can be adored, especially if there is a good hygiene. Oral sex has many spiritual benefits and is generally agreed especially by intelligent people. Practised both by women and men, to each other, it makes a good foreplay and it deepens the intimacy and pleasure between the two.
For some time I have no menstruation. Do you think I should go to the doctor?
Lack of menstruation may occur for several reasons. Pregnancy is one of them and pregnancy test can be purchased at the pharmacy. Menstruation can be delayed when an intense physical or mental effort is done and when that energy is ”spent” in that effort. Another reason would be that you have uplifted your sexual energy and then menstruation disappears for a longer or shorter time. If you are not pregnant, and there are no medical conditions for this, then lack of menstruation is good for women. It shows that you are using that sexual energy rather than letting it go to waste, and there is no reason to panic, on the contrary, you should be very pleased with yourself, and congratulations are in order . Tantric Women make great efforts and practice different spiritual exercises to stop their menstruation which in tantra is considered as a pathogenic state.
We are offering a course specifically focused on this, so please feel free to join us and discover more of the mystery that lies behind our period.
How can tantra have a positive influence on singles if they don’t have a lover?
Tantra is an ancient spiritual tradition, it is not merely a way to increase sexual pleasure, even if this is the image that was created most of the times for the western world.
The difference between Tantra and other spiritual traditions, is indeed, that Tantra fully embraces sexual energy turning it into a means, and even a very powerful engine to help us achieve the bliss of communion with the Absolute, and therefore, many tantric techniques do involve making love to your lover.
However, in order to be able to make love the tantric way, there is a wide range of practices to be done individually in order to become more aware and in control of your erotic energy. And such practices will also be learned in our courses. As you embark on this path of Tantra, you will discover that there is much more meaning both to the word Tantra and even to the erotic energy, than what is considered on a first glimpse.